SEX the tune of lovers or symphony of lust

 

What actually is sex? is it an act of love and affection or just a mere tool to get pleasure, to quench the thirst of lust in our body?

Our body consists of soul for which we need another soul to get merge to become a complete human but how much of it is true and what value does it hold in our life. In biology sex is an act of intercourse of human genitalia and the end result is reproduction (to produce another life) which every animal does, and we call it mating but what is the difference between these two terms.

Sex is always a hush hush topic, but we love to do it and can do it as many times as we want but why are people ashamed of it? is it ugly, is it something to be scared off? what actually it is. I am writing on this I will be judged, and I know that people will think "how much time she has done it to talk about it?", " a blog for it seriously?" but you know what I feel sex is something we use it to overcome our emotions of loneliness at this moment, not pleasure not anything spiritual but to just remove the void we have in our life which came through some traumatic event in our past experience in the life also this is my interpretation of sex you can have yours. Have you ever noticed the minute details while doing the act, the way your breath changes, the way your hands move around and the grip, the force it has on the skin of the other person, the words you throw at each other are the rawest and purest at that time without any mind games, the oxytocin level which increases and it signals the brains that this particular person is your mate. All this details but reduced to just "sex" 

what is moral and what is immoral in sex? it's like saying eating while you are hungry, but you need to label what is moral and what is immoral. Why lust is bad? people view lust as a very bad subject in the world of worldly pleasure; lust can drive someone to have the pleasure of this sweet cake but also remember can't have much of the sweet cake as it may cause the person diabetes and here, I am not talking about sweet cake or diabetes.

The kiss, The copulation, The adoration, The feelings, The love, The hatred, The belongingness all are  part of this small term called sex.